Timid child ?? How to Overcome It? (Tips and Easy Calming Kids Scared Anxious)

Tutorials1927 - Fear and shame is a definite feeling shared by all people. But when fear is experienced very excessive, it will definitely be a problem. In this case, we will often ask, "What's wrong with my son ?? Why is he timid and shy? What's wrong with him? And how do I handle it?"

1. Socialization

Everyone can not live alone. Especially children, who still need a lot of lessons and experiences. In this case, socialization is very important. Not only socializing with people in the house, but also with people outside the home. Can with neighbors and peers. Frequently invite children to stroll around the village, while accustom children to play and chat with others and peers. This forms the basis, so it should not be forgotten by all of us as parents. In addition to the courage, invite children to socialize can also raise awareness of the child to others.

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2. Sending in School Good

Choosing a quality school is not an easy matter. Choose the school that is not the case is expensive and has a beautiful building or educational facilities and a good game, but you have to know the ins and outs of the school. Prioritizing choose schools that also give priority to moral education, in addition to academic education, so that the child does not only thrive in an academic sense, but also character and personality. If the child has a school that also give priority to moral education, so if there are any problems with the child can be quickly resolved with good communication between parents and teachers.

3. Provide Enough Attention

Attention is very important for the children, so that children have a sense of security and peace. So if there are problems that befall the child, we will quickly know and can quickly solve them. The more we care for the baby, the more we understand the depth of his heart. And the more we know the depth of his heart, the more quickly the problems that happen to be resolved. Moreover, in the child's heart did not accumulate the anxiety that can accumulate and turn into a fear that is excessive. Attention here also cover greetings, compliments, caress affection, and others. Give that your best attention to the baby through the little things. In order for the child to feel appreciated, loved and protected. But we also have to remember, when we also have to educate our baby to become independent. Do not get the attention that we give so excessive that make children becoming spoiled and not independent because it is too dependent on us. To read the article "For the Son Can Always Self" Click HERE.

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4. Be an Example of Good

Every day we meet with our baby. Baby we'll see how the behavior and speech of our every day. Consciously or not, our baby will mimic what we have done and we katakana. What did the parents will influence the child's personality. In this case, we should be able to be a good parent and can set a good example for our baby. This will be very useful, in addition to providing education indirectly to children, it is also very useful for us as well appreciated and cherished by our baby. Baby we would not perceive us as a frightening figure and has a distance, but we can also be considered as a best friend who is ready to maintain and protect it at any time.

Who is our baby, depending on how we educate. So let us stop telling the child, "Do not be timid child !!" But let us start from ourselves to shaping the personality of our baby, by guiding them with great affection. Let us guide them to become child brave and mentally strong. So that they could form a tough kid in the face of all their problems in the future.

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