Character Formation Process In Children

Character can not be established by means of easy and cheap. By experiencing trials and sufferings soul character strengthened, vision cleared up, and the success achieved ~ Helen Keller

Tutorials1927 - One day a boy was watching a cocoon, eh was in it there is a butterfly struggling to escape from the cocoon. It seems so difficult, then the boys are feeling sorry for the butterflies and think of ways to help the butterfly to get out easily. Finally the boy had found the idea and immediately took scissors and help cut the cocoon that the butterfly could get out there dr. How happy and relieved the boy tersebut.Tetapi what happened? The butterflies are able to get out of there. But the butterfly can not fly, can only creep. What is?

Turned out for a butterfly struggling from the cocoon, which at the time he took all his strength, there is a flow of fluid in his body powerfully throughout the body that make the wings can be expanded so that it can fly, but because there is no longer a struggle The wings then can not inflate so be it a butterfly that can only creep.

That is a brief portrait of the formation of character, would seem clearly to understand example of the butterfly. Often parents and teachers, to forget this. It could be they do not want to be bothered, or pity on the child. Sometimes Good Intention or our good intentions are not necessarily a good thing. Just like when we teach our children. Sometimes we often help them out of pity or compassion, but in fact they do not even make independently. Make undeveloped potential in him. Spay creativity, because we can not bear to see them in trouble, which is actually when they got through it became stronger and character.

There is an anecdote which I frequently mentioned my colleagues, or participants. Where to eat instant noodles delicious with fried seafood noodles? Generally those who love noodles certainly know if fried seafood noodles much better than fried instant noodles can be cooked not only less than 3 minutes. What distinguishes good or absence of the noodle dishes? The process!

Similarly, for the formation of the character of a child, it takes time and commitment of parents and schools or teachers (if prioritizing this case) to educate children to be individual character. It takes effort, time and love of the environment which is where he grew, love herein should not be mistaken spoil. If we are abiding by this process then the impact is not for our children, for we too have a positive impact, not least the character of patience, tolerance, able to understand the problem from a different angle, discipline and integrity (the same words and actions) radiated in ourselves as parents or teachers. Remarkably, the process is doing a good job for parents, teachers and children if we are committed to the process of the formation of character.

At the beginning of the formation of the character of many parents and teachers are asking about how to discipline the child. There are six disciplinary process which we share through the free ebook 6 Ways to Discipline Children's, for those of you who do not have this ebook please download it free here.

Well, if disciplined enough? What about the process of forming the character of others? On August 6, 2012, we will publish a book 7 Days Shaping Character Child. This book will reveal things that are very rarely known by parents and teachers about how to educate children to grow up happy and character. Besides, not only children but this book also provides guidance for parents and teachers to be aware of shaping their characters independently.

Back to the formation of character, remember everything needs a process. Want to be ugly also need a process. Naughty child was also the child that discipline, you know. Do not believe? He was disciplined for being naughty. He does not want to bathe on time, get up in the morning is always late, always consistent to not do the job and shall not be used in full uniform.

There is one key to inculcate the habit, there are legal and that the law called the law of 21 days, in the formation of character is closely related to creating a positive new habit. And the habit will be firmly entrenched in the minds of men after repeated daily for 21 days. For example you get used to waking up the child to clean his bed, maybe you will always remind and monitor with affection (mandatory, with affection) for 21 days. But after the 21 days, the habit will be formed automatically. Well, now what positive habits you want to instill in children, spouse and yourself? You already know how to do and just do it. Success in a character that is constantly updated.

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