Advising and Treating Stubborn Child (Parenting Tips, advising Children in Family, Child Education, Early Childhood Teaching)

Tutorials1927 - Some parents complained about his stubborn nature. They are confused how to advise them. When forbidden to do something they will go berserk, or even fight. I will give you some tips to advise the child stubborn.

1. See ourselves

Sometimes we do not realize when our baby has a hard heart, one reason is ourselves. If we have a hard heart, difficult advised, certainly indirectly it will also rub off on our baby self. Just imagine, when you were advised by your parents, you actually fight, and did not obey. Or when we are advising our partner, we even fun watching TV, and not pay attention. When the baby every day we see it, certainly over time the baby we will do it too. If we today are too boastful, let us humble ourselves. If we are less willing to listen to others, then let us begin today learn to listen. So we will also be increasingly understood the needs of our baby, with a willing and providing time for our baby.

2. There is a "need for" Unmet

This may be one of the fruits of our attitudes are less willing to listen and hardened. The properties may impact on the unmet needs of the baby. A child's need is actually not much. They want attention and affection we as parents. Affection and attention is enough to minimize the needs of children on the "material". So when the child begins to ask this, it is easy to whine, and quickly tired of what he bought, it is actually an expression or effect of any portion of their hearts are empty. And actually the empty part of the heart can only be filled with the love and warmth that exist within a family.

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3. Distribute hobbies

Each child would have different talents and interests. As parents are careful, we have to understand about this. For example if our baby doodled on paper, began to try to put our baby in the painting studios. Children are normal, usually have "redundancy". That is why we often see kids hard to keep quiet. He will always move, and find the fun he can do. So set your "residual force" that exists within the baby. It will be very useful so that their emotions can be directed to things that are positive. This will greatly reduce the negative influences from outside which may cause merekaa irritable, easily bored, easily sad, and other negative traits.

4. Be a wise old man

Policies of parents is very dependent on the sensitivity of parents to their children. The wise man is always trying to do their best and give the best choice for the baby. The best thing for the child, sometimes not the best for parents. Here sometimes we find misunderstandings between parents and children. In order for selection of parents and children be in harmony, is essential to the existence of intense communication. This is where your time is needed. Not much time you give to the children, but rather the quality of your togetherness in children. Order of heart between parents and children can be maintained, we can communicate from the heart of biodiversity, and certainly not to be in a serious atmosphere. We can do this by frequently calling our baby, sharing at meals together, doing activities together (like cleaning the house together), and many other things we can do. Of this closeness, you will better understand your baby. So that our thinking with the baby we could be together, and minimize misunderstandings that usually occur because of the "boundary" between parents and children. And from this proximity, you can advise a child wisely.

5. Shaming Children at Home General

Sometimes there are parents who "do not know the place" when advising children. Umun already in place, with a loud voice, "You can not? !!" When advising a child, it would be better if we had advised him in a secret place and in a gentle voice. Do not give a ban, but rather an appeal. Do not say, "You can not draw on the wall". But .. "If you like to draw tomorrow Papa bought a large picture book." Expecting a child turns to embarrass them in public places is not the way a good advise. Because at that time, we have to teach children that embarrass other people in public places is something that is "halal".

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6. Forcing

If I may ask you, "Would you be forced to do something even though it is something that you like?" I myself never forced my friend eat Pizza at home, but with a tone that is uncomfortable and "like a boss". Do not know why, Pizza which is one of my favorite foods to be as difficult to swallow. That's what happened to our baby. We must learn to say something to our baby gently without any element of coercion. We must learn to engage rather than telling. Why? Because the order means asking someone to do something and it has to be done while we are not willing to do the same. While invited, is to ask someone to do something and wants to be one with the people we ask to the principles of togetherness.

7. When Right When advising

Have you ever invited to eat when you still feel very satisfied? Have you ever invited friends roads, when you are in a state of very tired? Well ... "Timing" is something that is important and we need to consider when we want to advise our baby. Choose the right moment where we could transfer the "moral science" we told our baby, without him feeling forced. And of course it is still strongly associated with the number 4. Examples are tips to encourage the baby to the streets. After he was pleased, and feel hungry, you can take a meal together. And that's when you can talk and say your expectations on the baby. For example, by saying, "Mama like it when you're dressed. You look beautiful. "Or to praise him," Well ... Son mama was great and added adults, are able to feed themselves. "With the bait-provocation like that, usually the child will be more interested to want to listen to your advice, so that for the future they can be changed little by little.

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